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Sex For Dummies Cheat Sheet

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Although I’m against cheating on your partner, there’s nothing wrong with cheating Father Time with this condensed information about how to have a great sex life. Though I’m all for the occasional quickie, to have terrific sex, you need to read a lot more of Sex For Dummies than just this Cheat Sheet.

How to have a great sex

Want to know how to have great sex? Although there are a lot more information bites in this Cheat Sheet, let’s start with some of the basics: You need to prepare yourself and your partner; if you are with a new lover, discover some great talking points to ease the awkwardness; use foreplay to set the mood throughout the day; and don’t forget about afterplay.

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Prepare yourself for great sex

Sex is easy, but great sex takes some preparation. Here are some hints of what you can do to get you and your partner ready:

Talking points for new lovers

The first time the two of you crawl into the sheets or slip into the back seat will be a little awkward. Discussing the following topics ahead of time will make it easier.

Set the mood throughout the day

Most couples make love at night, but matters will go much better if the daylight hours are used to best advantage. Try these tips and see what happens!

Drive your partner wild

There’s sex, and then there’s SEX! Following are some great sex tips on how to ramp up those three little letters:

Make the most of afterplay

Most lovers seem to know about foreplay, but just like a great movie, the better the ending, the more stars you’ll give it.

Maximize your masturbation exhilaration

We may never know whether Hans Solo practiced this art form on the Millennium Falcon, but here’s some advice for those stuck here on Earth.

What a woman should know about a man’s penis

A man’s equipment may be more obvious to the world than a woman’s, and yet there are many mysteries that a lover must unravel in order to best please the man attached to it. Consider the following:

What a man should know about a woman’s vulva

A woman’s private parts don’t come with a set of instructions, so every woman needs to write her own to make sure her lover knows what she likes. Here are a few important points to keep in mind:

How to use a condom and condom etiquette

Condoms can be a very effective method of preventing unintended pregnancies and keeping away STDs — but only if they’re used correctly.

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About the book author:

The late Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer, was a practicing therapist and adjunct professor at New York University. Dr. Ruth wrote 18 books and appeared frequently in the media.